Coaching practices for Compassion Focused Therapy
Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Compassion Focused Therapy, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.
Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- When everything’s falling apart I have nobody in my head to turn to
- Someone I love is suffering and there is nothing I can actually do to fix it, and that helplessness is unbearable
- Every time I try to be gentle with myself my body’s still wound tight and braced, and the calming part just won’t take
- One part of me wants out, another part won’t let me, and they just war with each other on a loop
- My pain comes wrapped in this lonely conviction that I’m the only one who feels this exact thing, that something’s uniquely wrong with me
Practices that may help
- Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), developed by Paul Gilbert, targets shame and self-criticism by training a compassionate inner voice to replace the punitive self-critic. It draws on evolutionary psychology and affective neuroscience — specifically, the finding that different emotional systems (threat, drive, soothing) have distinct neurobiological profiles. A growing body of RCT evidence supports CFT for shame-based difficulties, self-criticism, and depression, though the evidence base is smaller than for CBT. - Compassionate Imagery: The Compassionate Image and Safe Place
Develop a vivid compassionate figure in imagination whose care you can access during distress.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic - Direct tonglen toward a specific suffering person
Bring a person who is suffering to mind and breathe in their pain; breathe out whatever would give them relief.
Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending - Soothing Rhythm Breathing
Use slow, rhythmic breathing to deliberately activate the physiological soothing system before other compassion practices.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic - Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
Solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT), developed by Steve de Shazer and Insoo Kim Berg, directs attention to what already works — client strengths, past successes, and desired futures — rather than to analyzing problems. Meta-analyses report small-to-moderate positive effects across a range of presenting issues, with particular strength in behavioral problems and depression in adult populations. - Fierce Self-Compassion, Made Practical
Kristin Neff distinguishes two modes of self-compassion: tender (comforting and accepting) and fierce (protecting, providing, and motivating through clear, courageous action). Fierce self-compassion is not aggression — it is the warm, clear-eyed strength you would show on behalf of someone you deeply love, now directed at yourself. Research on self-compassion broadly supports both modes, though fierce self-compassion as a distinct construct is newer and primarily has observational and clinical support. - Working with Multiple Selves (Chair Work in CFT)
Give voice to different internal parts — the critic, the anxious self, the compassionate self — to understand and change the dialogue.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic - Expand tonglen to include all beings who share this suffering
Whatever you are suffering, countless others feel it too — breathe in the shared pain, breathe out shared relief.
Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending - N — Nurture with self-compassion
Offer the part that is suffering what it most needs — care, acknowledgment, reassurance — as you would a dear friend.
RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice - Developing the Compassionate Self Voice
Build an inner voice that responds to your suffering with wisdom, warmth, and commitment to wellbeing.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
Related concerns
- Cft Compassion Building
Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), developed by Paul Gilbert, targets shame and self-criticism by training a compassionate inner voice to replace the punitive self-critic. It draws on evolutionary psychology and affective neuroscience — specifically, the finding that different emotional systems (threat, drive, soothing) have distinct neurobiological profiles. A growing body of RCT evidence supports CFT for shame-based difficulties, self-criticism, and depression, though the evidence base is smaller than for CBT.
- Compassion Focused Therapy Beliefs
Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), developed by Paul Gilbert, targets shame and self-criticism by training a compassionate inner voice to replace the punitive self-critic. It draws on evolutionary psychology and affective neuroscience — specifically, the finding that different emotional systems (threat, drive, soothing) have distinct neurobiological profiles. A growing body of RCT evidence supports CFT for shame-based difficulties, self-criticism, and depression, though the evidence base is smaller than for CBT.
- Cft Compassionate Mind
Develop a vivid compassionate figure in imagination whose care you can access during distress.
Compassionate Imagery: The Compassionate Image and Safe Place
- Compassion Focused Therapy Calming The Inner Critic After A Loss
Develop a vivid compassionate figure in imagination whose care you can access during distress.
- Compassion Focused Therapy Calming The Inner Critic After A Setback
Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), developed by Paul Gilbert, targets shame and self-criticism by training a compassionate inner voice to replace the punitive self-critic. It draws on evolutionary psychology and affective neuroscience — specifically, the finding that different emotional systems (threat, drive, soothing) have distinct neurobiological profiles. A growing body of RCT evidence supports CFT for shame-based difficulties, self-criticism, and depression, though the evidence base is smaller than for CBT.
- Compassion Focused Therapy Calming The Inner Critic During A Big Change
Develop a vivid compassionate figure in imagination whose care you can access during distress.
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