Coaching practices for Conservation of Resources Theory After a Loss

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  • I have this vague sense I’m running low but I couldn’t tell you on what
  • Right now I actually have some breathing room and energy to spare, and I don’t want to just coast through it
  • When I’m slammed, the first things I sacrifice are my sleep, my health, the people closest to me
  • It always starts the same way
  • Things are calm for once and part of me just wants to stop thinking about any of this

Practices that may help

  1. Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
    Stevan Hobfoll’s conservation of resources (COR) theory holds that stress occurs when valued resources are threatened, lost, or fail to return after investment. The theory predicts that people with more resources are more resilient and that resource loss is disproportionately more powerful than resource gain — which explains why the same stressor hits harder when you’re already depleted. Building, protecting, and strategically deploying resources is the practical application.
  2. Audit your current resource base
    Take stock of where you stand in each resource category — objects, conditions, characteristics, and energies — before the next stressor arrives.
    Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
  3. Invest resources in gain-loops when conditions allow
    Resources beget resources — when you have surplus, invest it where it compounds.
    Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
  4. Prioritize protecting primary resources above pursuing secondary ones
    When under threat, guard your most foundational resources first — health, key relationships, income — even at the cost of secondary gains.
    Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
  5. Recognize and interrupt resource loss spirals early
    The earliest sign of a loss spiral — one resource loss leading to another — is when to act, not later.
    Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
  6. Build resources proactively during good periods as inoculation
    Resilience is built before stress arrives, not during it — the preparation window is the good periods.
    Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
  7. Invest in social resources as the highest-return resilience investment
    Strong, diverse social relationships are the single most robust resilience resource across virtually all stressor types.
    Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
  8. Build the inflow before trying to stop the outflow
    In depleted stocks, restoring an inflow is usually more tractable than eliminating the outflow.
    Stocks and Flows
  9. Zoom out from the single loss to the aggregate
    A loss looks catastrophic in isolation and trivial across the whole portfolio of your life.
    Loss Aversion, Made Practical
  10. Treat recovery as a performance investment, not a reward for finishing
    Schedule recovery as deliberately as training — stress without recovery produces breakdown, not growth.
    The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical

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