Coaching practices for Coworker Screwed Up Side Job I Hired Him for

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• I hand work off and somehow it keeps boomeranging back onto my plate
• I put someone on the hook for the result but kept all the real decisions and the budget myself, so now they have to come ask my permission for every little thing and the whole thing crawls and stalls.
• I keep telling myself family comes first, but when I actually look at where my hours went this week it’s almost all work
• Someone hits a snag, brings it to me, I say "leave it with me," and somehow the task I delegated is back on my desk
• My days vanish into recurring admin that anyone could do, and the work that only I can do never gets reached

Practices that may help

1. Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
   When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
2. Transfer authority with the responsibility
   Give people the decision rights and resources the task actually requires.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
3. Audit work hours against your stated priorities
   Compare how you actually spend your time this week against what you say matters most.
   The Regret of the Dying
4. Resist upward (reverse) delegation
   Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
5. Outsource personal and business tasks with a virtual assistant
   Hand off any recurring task a written process can describe to a skilled assistant.
   Lifestyle Design, Made Practical
6. Apply the matrix at the role level, not just the task level
   Audit which of your entire roles or commitments are Q1, Q2, Q3, or Q4 — not just individual tasks.
   The Eisenhower Life Audit
7. Adapt to your manager’s communication style
   Match your manager’s preferred level of detail, pace, and channel — not theirs to yours.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
8. Assign exactly one Accountable per decision
   Every decision or deliverable must have exactly one A — not zero, not two.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
9. Choose a partner who will actually hold the line
   Pick someone invested enough to ask hard questions, not a friend who will let it slide.
   Accountability Partners
10. Inform stakeholders before they ask, not after they complain
    I’s are one-way — they receive information; the cost of surprising them is always higher than the cost of telling them.
    The RACI Matrix, Made Practical

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