Coaching practices for My Boss Gave My Project to the New Employee What Do I Do Now
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Someone hits a snag, brings it to me, I say "leave it with me," and somehow the task I delegated is back on my desk
- I hand work off and somehow it keeps boomeranging back onto my plate
- I’ve got a new hire starting and the lazy move is to just hand them whatever’s piled up in the backlog
- My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
- I keep dropping problems on my boss’s desk and waiting for them to tell me what to do, and I can feel it reads as me not owning my work
Practices that may help
- Resist upward (reverse) delegation
Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
Effective Delegation, Made Practical - Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
Delegation Levels, Made Practical - Use genius mapping in onboarding
Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni) - Send proactive, brief status updates
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Inform stakeholders before they ask, not after they complain
I’s are one-way — they receive information; the cost of surprising them is always higher than the cost of telling them.
The RACI Matrix, Made Practical - Transfer authority with the responsibility
Give people the decision rights and resources the task actually requires.
Effective Delegation, Made Practical - Match the task to the person
Delegate based on the fit between the task’s demands and the person’s skill, growth needs, and capacity.
Effective Delegation, Made Practical - Structured delegation for Q3 tasks
Hand off urgent-but-not-important tasks with a clear brief, defined success criteria, and a check-in cadence.
The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation - Name the delegation level explicitly at the start of every task
State clearly whether you want a recommendation, a decision with notification, or a decision without notification — before the work begins.
Delegation Levels, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Boss Hiring New Employee For Responsibilities Promised To Me How Can I Deal With This
Give people the decision rights and resources the task actually requires.
Transfer authority with the responsibility
- Dealing With An Incompetent Colleague On A Project
Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
Resist upward (reverse) delegation
- Feedback After Delegating
Close the loop with a learning-focused review so the next delegation needs less of you.
Debrief to grow capability, not just to grade
- How To Address Imbalanced Work Assignments To New Boss
Match your manager’s preferred level of detail, pace, and channel — not theirs to yours.
Adapt to your manager’s communication style
- How To Deal With A Colleague Whos Taking All The Nice Important Tasks
Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
- Who To Delegate To
Hand off urgent-but-not-important tasks with a clear brief, defined success criteria, and a check-in cadence.
Structured delegation for Q3 tasks
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