Coaching practices for Crum Stress Reappraisal

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Right before the thing that matters
• It’s not really the event that’s crushing me
• Something stressful just happened and it’s still churning in me, replaying
• There are situations I know are coming where I’ll be gritting my teeth to hold a feeling down
• This feels completely beyond me, like the demands tower over anything I’ve got to meet them

Practices that may help

1. Practice the "see it, own it, use it" reappraisal
   Crum’s framework: notice the stress (see it), acknowledge why it matters (own it), and channel it (use it).
   The Stress-Is-Enhancing Mindset
2. Reappraise the meaning of the stressor
   Change what the event means — not to minimize it, but to hold it in a frame that enables functioning.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
3. Use appraisal journaling to debrief stressful events
   Writing through both appraisal steps after a stressful event consolidates learning and reduces the event’s residual emotional weight.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
4. Replace suppression with upstream reappraisal
   Shift to reappraisal — changing how you think about the event before it generates the emotion you would otherwise suppress.
   The Costs of Expressive Suppression, Made Practical
5. Inventory your coping resources (secondary appraisal)
   After identifying the threat, systematically assess what you actually have to work with — your options are likely more than the stressed mind sees.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
6. Adopt the "stress-is-enhancing" mindset
   Believing stress responses are helpful — not harmful — moderates the health costs of the threat response.
   Challenge vs. Threat Appraisal, Made Practical
7. Reframe threat as challenge
   Interpret a stressful situation as a challenge to meet, not a threat to survive.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
8. Reframe through cognitive reappraisal
   Change how you interpret a stressor — its meaning, scope, and permanence — to change its emotional impact.
   Building Resilience, Made Practical
9. Find alternatives to expressive suppression in high-stakes moments
   When you must manage what you show, use reappraisal or slow your breath rather than white-knuckling the expression down.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
10. Debrief performances to recover from threat appraisals
    After a high-stakes event, restructure what happened to extract learning and reduce the residual threat signal.
    Challenge vs. Threat Appraisal, Made Practical

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