Coaching practices for Reappraise Anxiety

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  • My body is buzzing before the big moment and telling myself to "calm down" only makes it worse
  • There’s a big thing coming up and my body is already in full alarm
  • Right before something that matters my heart pounds and my hands buzz, and I read all of it as a warning to back out
  • It’s not really the event that’s crushing me
  • Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room

Practices that may help

  1. Arousal Reappraisal: "I’m Excited, Not Anxious"
    Reinterpret physiological arousal as excitement rather than anxiety — they share the same physiology.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  2. Reframe threat as challenge
    Interpret a stressful situation as a challenge to meet, not a threat to survive.
    Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
  3. Reappraise discomfort as a signal of engagement
    Interpreting physiological arousal as excitement rather than threat changes its effect on performance.
    Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth
  4. Reappraise the meaning of the stressor
    Change what the event means — not to minimize it, but to hold it in a frame that enables functioning.
    Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
  5. Engage with the present moment
    Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  6. Recalibrate arousal as readiness, not threat
    Reinterpret pre-performance anxiety as energy and readiness rather than evidence of inadequacy.
    Mastery Experiences
  7. Inventory your coping resources (secondary appraisal)
    After identifying the threat, systematically assess what you actually have to work with — your options are likely more than the stressed mind sees.
    Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
  8. Debrief performances to recover from threat appraisals
    After a high-stakes event, restructure what happened to extract learning and reduce the residual threat signal.
    Challenge vs. Threat Appraisal, Made Practical
  9. Run a primary appraisal check
    Before assuming a situation is stressful, ask: does this actually threaten, harm, or challenge something I care about?
    Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
  10. Replace suppression with upstream reappraisal
    Shift to reappraisal — changing how you think about the event before it generates the emotion you would otherwise suppress.
    The Costs of Expressive Suppression, Made Practical

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