Coaching practices for Daring Greatly in a New Job

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • There’s a thing I want to say or ask for, but I can’t make myself do it without knowing how they’ll take it first
  • It’s not that the whole task is huge
  • I have to tell someone something hard about their work and I’m dreading it, because every time I do it lands like an attack and they go defensive
  • We’re heading into a project nobody has done before, but my team is treating it like a checklist where any slip is failure
  • I do my job competently and stay neatly inside my lane, and I sense that’s exactly why I’m read as just-a-role-filler

Practices that may help

  1. Daring Greatly, Made Practical
    Brené Brown’s Daring Greatly argues that vulnerability — showing up without guarantees — is the birthplace of courage, connection, and creativity, not a weakness to hide. The ideas come from qualitative, grounded-theory research on thousands of interviews rather than controlled trials, so treat them as well-grounded patterns from lived experience rather than experimentally proven effects.
  2. Choose vulnerability on purpose
    Show up and let yourself be seen when there is no guarantee of the outcome.
    Daring Greatly, Made Practical
  3. Directing — high direction for the eager novice
    With someone new and keen but unskilled, give clear, specific instruction and tight structure.
    Situational Leadership, Made Practical
  4. Use a five-second micro-start to breach the initiation threshold
    Commit only to the first five seconds of an action — not the full task.
    Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem
  5. Give and receive feedback with courage
    Sit on the same side of the table: feedback as a shared problem, not an attack.
    Daring Greatly, Made Practical
  6. Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
    For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
    Situational Leadership, Made Practical
  7. Frame uncertain work as learning
    Before starting a challenging project, name it explicitly as an experiment where mistakes generate information.
    Psychological Safety in Teams
  8. Expand your role through extra-role behavior
    Voluntarily take on work beyond your formal responsibilities to signal readiness for a higher-trust relationship.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  9. Use genius mapping in onboarding
    Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
    The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
  10. Match the delegation level to the person’s current competence and confidence
    Over-delegate to someone who isn’t ready and they fail; under-delegate and they stagnate.
    Delegation Levels, Made Practical

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