Coaching practices for Decreasing Concessions

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• When we’re going back and forth on the price I just keep bumping my number up by the same chunk each time to keep things moving, and I can’t tell whether I’m signaling I’ve still got plenty of room to give.
• When I back down to my smaller request I just quietly slide into it like the big ask never happened
• I’m walking into a negotiation and I want the other side to feel like meeting me halfway is their idea
• I’ve reached the number I can’t move past, but I don’t want them walking away feeling like they got nothing
• We had one person open with the big request and then someone else came in to make the real ask, and it just fell flat

Practices that may help

1. Use the Ackerman bid sequence: 65%–85%–95%–100% of target
   Make four calculated offers that converge on your target with shrinking steps — each concession signals you are approaching your limit.
   The Ackerman Method, Made Practical
2. Make the step-down visibly deliberate
   A concession that is invisible or unexplained carries no reciprocity weight.
   The Door-in-the-Face Technique, Made Practical
3. Use reciprocal concessions in negotiation
   Make a large ask first; concede to your real ask — the concession feels like a gift.
   The Rule of Reciprocity, Made Practical
4. Accompany your final offer with a small non-monetary concession
   Adding a low-cost non-monetary item to your final offer signals genuine limit while giving the counterpart a win.
   The Ackerman Method, Made Practical
5. Keep the same person making both requests
   The door-in-the-face effect is substantially weaker when a different person makes the second ask.
   The Door-in-the-Face Technique, Made Practical
6. Logroll by trading issues of unequal importance
   Concede on what matters less to you in exchange for gains on what matters more.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
7. The Door-in-the-Face Technique, Made Practical
   The door-in-the-face technique works by making a large, likely-to-be-refused request first, then conceding to a smaller one. The step-down feels like a concession, triggering reciprocal obligation; the smaller request also benefits from perceptual contrast — it looks more reasonable against the large anchor. Cialdini et al. (1975) documented this in a well-replicated experiment. Meta-analyses find moderate effects, strongest when the requests are related and from the same person.
8. Add issues to expand the pie
   Bring more variables in — timing, scope, future work — so there’s more to trade.
   Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie
9. Accommodate relationships — but not at the cost of important interests
   Accommodating is appropriate when you were wrong, the issue is trivial, or preserving the relationship outweighs your stake in the outcome.
   The Thomas–Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)
10. Trade across issues where each side has different priorities
    Give the counterpart what they care most about; get what you care most about — logrolling is only possible when interests differ.
    Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation

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