Coaching practices for Does Buying Things Make You Happy

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• My instinct when I care about someone is to buy them a thing, but the stuff I’ve given just ends up in a drawer and forgotten
• I keep buying myself things expecting a lift and the thrill is gone within a week
• I keep spending my money on stuff
• I give people things but it always comes out as a quick transaction
• Almost all my discretionary money goes to treats for myself and the lift fades fast, and I notice the moments I actually felt good were the small things I did for other people

Practices that may help

1. Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness
   Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton’s research found that spending money on others — "prosocial spending" — reliably produces more happiness than spending the same amount on oneself, across income levels and cultures. The effect is real and replicates, though it is not unlimited: how you give matters as much as whether you give.
2. Give experiences, not objects
   Treat someone to a shared experience rather than buying them a thing.
   Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness
3. Invest in experiences rather than possessions
   Experiential spending produces more lasting happiness than material spending of equivalent cost.
   Time Affluence Practices (Cassie Holmes)
4. Spend on experiences rather than possessions
   Experiences resist adaptation better than objects because they exist as memories that improve over time.
   The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical
5. Give in ways that strengthen social connection
   Make your giving a moment of relationship, not a transaction.
   Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness
6. Allocate part of your values budget to others
   Prosocial spending — money spent on others — generates more lasting satisfaction per dollar than equivalent self-spending.
   Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
7. Apply the "value per dollar" test to major purchases
   Before a large purchase, ask how much wellbeing per dollar this generates relative to alternatives at the same cost.
   Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
8. Outsource tasks you dislike to buy time affluence
   Paying to offload dreaded tasks raises happiness more than spending the same money on material goods.
   Time Smart: Buying Back Your Time Affluence
9. Give to a named, visible person
   Spend on someone specific enough that you can see or imagine their response.
   Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness
10. Invest in what research shows moves the set point
    Prioritize relationships, autonomy, and meaning — the three factors most reliably linked to lasting wellbeing gains.
    The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical

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