Coaching practices for Emotional Intelligence When Burned Out

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• By the time I get to the people who matter I’ve got nothing left to give them
• The big blowup is over but I’m completely wrung out
• I treat my own bad moods as background static to just power through, and then I’m baffled when my focus and drive keep collapsing
• There’s a low-grade resentment and worry I carry around all day, and by evening I’m wiped out even though I didn’t physically do much
• Carrying everyone else’s anxiety and conflict has hollowed me out

Practices that may help

1. Build emotional energy rituals to buffer against daily depletion
   Emotional energy is the quality of emotional availability you bring to work and relationships — and it is trainable through brief daily rituals.
   Energy Management, Not Time Management
2. Recover and recharge after intense emotion
   After an emotional peak, deliberately allow recovery time — intense arousal depletes resources.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
3. Manage emotional energy
   Cultivate positive emotional states deliberately, since they fuel performance and connection.
   The Power of Full Engagement, Made Practical
4. Identify and shift emotional energy drains
   Chronic negative emotions are not just unpleasant — they are metabolic and cognitive loads that drain performance capacity.
   The Energy Audit
5. Build sanctuaries for renewal outside the system
   Maintain relationships and practices outside the organizational system that restore perspective and capacity.
   Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
6. Stop surface acting
   Recognize when you’re masking emotions at work or in relationships, and find low-cost outlets for what you actually feel.
   Radical Honesty About Emotions, Made Practical
7. Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement
   Do 20 jumping jacks, sprint for a minute, or any intense exercise to burn through the stress-response chemicals.
   TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity
8. Social skill
   Manage relationships, navigate conflict, and influence well by applying the other four skills in interaction.
   Emotional Intelligence, Made Practical
9. Observe the emotion without feeding it
   When a strong emotion hits, watch it without adding the story that keeps it going.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
10. Match coping mode to what is actually controllable
    Use problem-focused coping when you can change the situation; emotion-focused coping when you cannot.
    Stress Inoculation Training

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