Coaching practices for Expectancy Violation
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- In the moment I love making the big enthusiastic promise
- I was sure the win was coming and it didn’t
- I keep avoiding this even though I’m capable of it and I do care, and I can’t explain why
- I face the thing, nothing bad happens, and yet my fear never seems to update
- I keep putting this off because deep down I don’t think I can actually pull it off
Practices that may help
- Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains. - Build reliability by making smaller, keepable promises
Under-promise consistently, then exceed rather than over-promise and fall short.
The Trust Triangle - Actively manage the dopamine dip when a reward doesn’t arrive
Disappointment is a prediction error in reverse — acknowledge it instead of pushing through it.
Reward Prediction Error: Using Dopamine Science to Stay Motivated - Socialise your values and expectations to reduce hidden motivation barriers
Others’s expectations and transmitted values shape whether you believe you belong in a domain — making implicit messages explicit clears hidden motivation blocks.
Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t) - Violation of expectancy: test the feared prediction
Before each exposure, make an explicit prediction of what will happen — then check whether you were right.
Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them - Raise your expectancy of success before starting
Boost confidence that effort will actually lead to a good outcome — low expectancy is a core driver of delay.
The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical - Know the three conditions that produce overjustification
The effect requires: initial intrinsic interest + expected reward + reward contingent on doing the task.
The Overjustification Effect: When Rewards Kill Motivation - Create psychological safety around missing a stretch target
Stretch goals only produce honest effort when missing them is treated as data, not failure.
Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire - Build expectancy through mastery experiences, not just affirmations
Expectancy — the belief that you can succeed — grows from actual small wins, not self-talk.
Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t) - Use unexpected rather than pre-committed rewards
Unexpected rewards after a good performance rarely undermine motivation; expected rewards often do.
Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation: What the Research Actually Shows
Related concerns
- Expectancy Value Motivation
Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains.
- Expectancy Value Theory Why You Try Or Don T After A Loss
Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains.
- Expectancy Value Theory Why You Try Or Don T For My Teenager
Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains.
- Expectancy Value Theory
Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains.
- Expectancy Value Theory Why You Try Or Don T After A Setback
Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains.
- Expectancy Value Theory Why You Try Or Don T As A Caregiver
Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains.
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