Coaching practices for Explanatory Style Globality

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• When something goes wrong I just get hit with a wave of "I always fail at everything because I’m not capable," and it’s so total and crushing that I can’t even see which part of that is the actual problem versus the part I could question.
• One thing goes badly — a single rough conversation — and within an hour it’s bled into everything, like I’m suddenly bad at relationships, bad at my job, bad at all of it, when really it was just that one moment that didn’t go well.
• When something goes wrong I instantly tell myself "this always happens, it ruins everything, and it’s because of me"
• When something actually goes well for me, I wave it off as luck or someone else’s doing
• One thing goes wrong and my mind sprints straight to total disaster

Practices that may help

1. Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism
   Explanatory style is the habitual way you explain why things happen — pessimists read setbacks as permanent, pervasive, and personal, while optimists read them as temporary, specific, and changeable. Martin Seligman’s research links pessimistic style to depression risk and shows it can be shifted by learning to dispute pessimistic explanations.
2. Learn the three attribution dimensions
   Diagnose every failure explanation as internal/external, stable/unstable, and global/specific — then ask which dimension you can shift.
   Attributional Retraining, Made Practical
3. Make attributions specific, not global
   Keep the explanation for failure in the domain where it happened — resist letting it spill into a verdict on your whole self.
   Attributional Retraining, Made Practical
4. Catch the three Ps in your explanations
   Notice whether you’re reading a setback as permanent, pervasive, and personal — the pessimistic signature.
   Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism
5. Explain good events optimistically too
   Read your successes as permanent, pervasive, and personal — the optimist’s mirror of the three Ps.
   Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism
6. Decatastrophize with the worst/best/likely frame
   Counter "everything is ruined" by naming the worst case, the best case, and the most likely case.
   Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism
7. Practice flexible optimism, not blind optimism
   Choose optimism where the cost of error is low, and sober realism where the stakes are high.
   Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism
8. Third-party explanation test
   Explain the concept to a person who knows nothing about it and let their questions expose your gaps.
   Illusion of Explanatory Depth: You Know Less Than You Think
9. Hold multiple maps simultaneously
   For complex situations, develop two or three competing models and check which fits better.
   The Map Is Not the Territory
10. For many decisions, going with your gut outperforms lengthy analysis
    Over-explaining reasons for a preference can actually detgrade the quality of affective predictions.
    Affect Forecasting: Why You Mispredicted How You’d Feel

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