Coaching practices for Failure Indicators

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• When I’m fired up about something my enthusiasm drowns out all my caution, and I only realize I drifted into a known failure pattern long after the damage is done
• I only watch what I’m shipping
• I always seem to realize a thing is going off the rails only once I’m in way too deep to back out
• I only ever watch the final number
• By the time I realize I’ve lost it I’m already fully panicking or completely shut down, and there was no warning

Practices that may help

1. Build an anti-goal checklist
   Keep a running list of "what failure looks like" and review against it.
   Inversion: Solve Problems Backward
2. Monitor system health indicators, not just outcome metrics
   Output metrics tell you what happened; system health indicators tell you what is coming.
   Systems Thinking for Personal Productivity
3. Turn top risks into tripwires
   Set a specific signal that tells you a feared failure is starting to happen.
   The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
4. Track lead and lag indicators
   Measure the behaviors you control (lead) alongside the results they produce (lag).
   The 12 Week Year, Made Practical
5. Map your own window
   Learn the signs of your calm zone, your hyperarousal, and your shutdown.
   The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone
6. Recognize the shutdown signature
   Learn to identify dorsal-state signals before they deepen.
   Dorsal Vagal Shutdown: The Collapse State and How to Emerge
7. Run a pre-mortem before committing to a plan
   Imagine the plan has already failed and ask what went wrong.
   Confirmation Bias: Seeing What You Expect to See
8. Use the horsemen as an early-warning system, not only a post-mortem
   Notice which horseman is present in the first 60 seconds of a conflict and intervene before it escalates.
   The Four Horsemen: Gottman's Warning Signs of Relationship Breakdown
9. Install feedback loops to track behavior and adjust
   Measure the behavior directly and use the data to update your intervention, not just your motivation.
   The COM-B Model and Behavior Change Wheel
10. Identify and track your critical numbers
    Find the two or three metrics that, if managed well, predict overall health — and make them visible to everyone.
    The Rockefeller Habits: Scaling Up with Rhythm and Focus

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