Coaching practices for Warning Signs Checklist

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  • When I’m fired up about something my enthusiasm drowns out all my caution, and I only realize I drifted into a known failure pattern long after the damage is done
  • By the time I realize I’ve lost it I’m already fully panicking or completely shut down, and there was no warning
  • I always seem to realize a thing is going off the rails only once I’m in way too deep to back out
  • I’ve got all these little things I do to get through anxious moments
  • By the time I clock that I’ve gone flat and checked-out, I’m already so far under that I can’t do anything about it

Practices that may help

  1. Build an anti-goal checklist
    Keep a running list of "what failure looks like" and review against it.
    Inversion: Solve Problems Backward
  2. Map your own window
    Learn the signs of your calm zone, your hyperarousal, and your shutdown.
    The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone
  3. Turn top risks into tripwires
    Set a specific signal that tells you a feared failure is starting to happen.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  4. Map your safety-behavior inventory
    List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  5. Recognize the shutdown signature
    Learn to identify dorsal-state signals before they deepen.
    Dorsal Vagal Shutdown: The Collapse State and How to Emerge
  6. Track your personal early-warning signals
    Learn to notice when you are entering the cycle before your behavior escalates.
    The Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle, Explained
  7. Monitor system health indicators, not just outcome metrics
    Output metrics tell you what happened; system health indicators tell you what is coming.
    Systems Thinking for Personal Productivity
  8. Apply anti-goals to relationships and collaborators
    Naming the relational patterns you refuse to accept prevents you from optimising for the wrong things in who you work or live with.
    Anti-Goals: Defining Success by What You Refuse to Accept
  9. Use the horsemen as an early-warning system, not only a post-mortem
    Notice which horseman is present in the first 60 seconds of a conflict and intervene before it escalates.
    The Four Horsemen: Gottman's Warning Signs of Relationship Breakdown
  10. Recognize activation signals during practice
    Learn your personal early warning signs of trauma activation so you can step back before overwhelm.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical

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