Coaching practices for Feeling Your Feelings in the Body

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I can analyze my feelings all day long, but it stays in my head and never actually moves through me
• I’m stuck endlessly in my head
• I feel it in my body before my head catches up
• When I think about this whole situation there’s something my body clearly registers
• I live so far up in my head that I only notice my body once it’s screaming

Practices that may help

1. Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
   After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
   The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
2. Track body sensation (the felt sense)
   Follow raw physical sensation with curiosity — tingling, warmth, pressure — rather than the storyline.
   Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
3. Pair the word with a body location
   Name the feeling and where you sense it: "tight in the chest", "heavy in the gut".
   Affect Labeling: Name It to Tame It
4. Find the felt sense
   Locate the unclear, whole-body sense of a situation before you name it.
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
5. Reading the body as a self-knowledge instrument
   Treat physical sensations in the moment as data about what is actually happening inside you.
   Svadhyaya: Self-Study as a Daily Practice
6. Practice noticing what your body is doing
   Build the skill of sensing internal signals — tension, heart rate, breath — without being hijacked by them.
   The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained
7. The interoceptive body scan
   Move attention slowly through the body, sensing internal signals without changing them.
   Interoception, Explained
8. Read bodily signals as information
   Treat tension, energy dips, and gut feelings as data about needs and emotions, not just noise.
   Interoception, Explained
9. Name what the emotion is doing in your body
   Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
10. Tracking shadow material through the body
    Notice where in the body suppressed reactions live — tension, constriction, or deadness are somatic shadow clues.
    Shadow Work

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