Coaching practices for Focusing and the Felt Sense Under Stress

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  • When I’m stressed I get tunnel-vision
  • When I think about this whole situation there’s something my body clearly registers
  • I land on a name for what I’m feeling and just take my own word for it and move on
  • The instant something painful surfaces
  • There’s so much piled on me at once that I can’t even find myself underneath it all

Practices that may help

  1. Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
    Focusing, developed by philosopher and psychotherapist Eugene Gendlin, is a structured inner-listening practice that attends to the "felt sense" — a bodily, pre-verbal knowing about a situation. Small clinical studies and therapist-outcome research suggest people who can access the felt sense make more therapeutic progress, though large controlled trials are lacking. The self-inquiry skills Focusing teaches are low-risk and widely applicable.
  2. Activate peripheral vision to shift from threat mode to open-awareness
    Soften your gaze and expand awareness to the periphery — this neurologically shifts the eyes from predator focus to safety scan.
    The Orienting Response, Made Practical
  3. Find the felt sense
    Locate the unclear, whole-body sense of a situation before you name it.
    Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
  4. Resonate and check
    Shuttle between the word and the body to confirm the felt sense is accurately captured.
    Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
  5. Receive what comes with friendliness
    Welcome whatever emerges from the felt sense without judgment or urgency to fix it.
    Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
  6. Clear a space
    Set down each burden one by one to find the calm place underneath them.
    Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
  7. Direct focus to controllables only, especially under pressure
    When pressure is highest, narrow attention to what you can directly influence — and let everything else go.
    The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
  8. Distinguish applying from sustaining attention
    First, aim attention at the object (applying); then, stay with it without tightening (sustaining).
    Shamatha: The Buddhist Practice of Calm Abiding
  9. Use stress signals as cycle-boundary alerts
    When physical stress signals arrive in a focus session, treat them as the body marking a cycle boundary — not a cue to push harder.
    Ultradian Rhythms: Working with Your Brain’s Focus Cycles
  10. Notice the noticer: find the observing awareness
    Shift attention from what you are noticing to the awareness that is doing the noticing.
    The Witness Stance

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