Coaching practices for Follow Your Interest
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I feel like I should already know my one thing and lock in, but honestly I’ve barely tried anything
- My interest in this was strong while it was new and intellectually shiny, and now that the novelty’s worn off it’s fizzling
- I need to get into something I find genuinely boring
- At the beginner stage everything in this area feels flat and a little boring, and I’m ready to write it off
- I keep waiting to feel that spark before I really commit to anything, and it never shows up at the start
Practices that may help
- Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love
Paul O’Keefe and colleagues found that people who believe interests are fixed ("find your passion") tend to abandon pursuits when they get hard, while those who see interests as developed through effort stay curious and persistent. The evidence suggests "follow your passion" is not just unhelpful advice — it may actively discourage the effort that transforms shallow interest into deep, sustaining work. - Sample widely before committing to a niche
Premature specialization forecloses interests you haven’t discovered yet.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Link developing interests to a sense of contribution
Interest that connects to helping others or solving real problems becomes more sustaining than interest that is purely self-contained.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Develop interest in areas where it is currently absent
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t) - Prioritize skill gains that reveal more of the domain
Each layer of skill opens new parts of a domain you couldn’t see before — this is how interest deepens.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Invest effort before expecting the passion to arrive
Passion follows competence — start before you feel ready, because the feeling comes after.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Follow genuine interest, not strategic interest
Pursue the thing that genuinely excites you — even if you cannot explain why or see how it fits.
The Creative Act: Rick Rubin’s Approach to Making - Track what makes you ask questions, not what makes you feel good
Curiosity is a better signal for developing passion than pleasure.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Allow multiple active interests without forcing a hierarchy
Having more than one developing interest is not a sign of lost focus — it’s how passion develops for many people.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Distinguish genuine interest from performed interest
Separate goals you are genuinely curious about from ones you believe you should be curious about.
Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Interest Development Theory
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
Develop interest in areas where it is currently absent
- How To Become Interested
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
- How To Find Interests
Premature specialization forecloses interests you haven’t discovered yet.
Sample widely before committing to a niche
- Purpose And Interest Development
Interest that connects to helping others or solving real problems becomes more sustaining than interest that is purely self-contained.
Link developing interests to a sense of contribution
- When Expectancy Value Theory Interest Development
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
- Cultivate Interest
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
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