Coaching practices for Get Out of Bed Insomnia

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  • When I can’t fall asleep I just stay there, lying in the dark willing it to happen for an hour or more
  • The moment I get into bed my brain flips on
  • By bedtime I’m already dreading another bad night, and the harder I try to force myself to sleep
  • My instinct with insomnia has always been to go to bed earlier and give myself more hours to catch the sleep
  • I climb into bed exhausted but my body hasn’t gotten the message

Practices that may help

  1. Get out of bed when you can not sleep
    Leave the bed after roughly 20 minutes of wakefulness to avoid reinforcing the awake-in-bed association.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  2. Pair sleep restriction with stimulus control
    Use the restricted window only for sleep — not reading, screens, or lying awake — to re-pair the bed with sleepiness.
    Sleep Restriction Therapy
  3. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
    Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  4. Set a restricted sleep window equal to your actual sleep time
    Limit time in bed to approximately your average actual sleep time — this is the restriction that starts the cure.
    Sleep Restriction Therapy
  5. Use relaxation training before bed
    Practice a structured relaxation technique to lower physiological arousal before sleep.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  6. Use sleep hygiene as the foundation, not the cure
    Get the basics right (light, caffeine, temperature, schedule) but do not expect them alone to fix insomnia.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  7. Sleep restriction therapy
    Temporarily compress your time in bed to match how much you actually sleep, then expand it as efficiency improves.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  8. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
    Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  9. Restore the bedroom as a stimulus for sleep only
    Reserve the bed exclusively for sleep and sex — no working, scrolling, or watching in bed.
    The Phone-Free Bedroom
  10. Challenge catastrophic thoughts about sleep
    Identify and test the beliefs that turn a bad night into a disaster story.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical

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