Coaching practices for Going Beyond Minimum Standards
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- The second I hit my small target my brain says "that’s not enough, do more," and the pressure to keep going turns the easy win into another thing I resent
- I keep doing just enough to clear the bar and then coasting, and it’s quietly become who I think I am
- I do my job competently and stay neatly inside my lane, and I sense that’s exactly why I’m read as just-a-role-filler
- Every time I set a goal it’s so big that staring at it makes me freeze and do nothing
- The bar I hold myself to is one no actual human could ever clear, so no matter what I achieve it never counts and I’m left perpetually disappointed in myself
Practices that may help
- Treat anything beyond the minimum as a bonus
Complete the minimum first, then let further effort be strictly optional — never obligatory.
Mini Habits, Made Practical - Outperform expectations in every context
Becoming the person who consistently delivers beyond what’s expected is a discipline practice, not just a performance tactic.
The Accountability Mirror: David Goggins’s Radical Honesty Practice - Expand your role through extra-role behavior
Voluntarily take on work beyond your formal responsibilities to signal readiness for a higher-trust relationship.
Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical - Set an absurdly small daily minimum
The minimum must be so small that saying no feels more embarrassing than just doing it.
Mini Habits, Made Practical - Recalibrate ideal-self standards when they are unreachably high
Distinguish between aspirational standards that stretch you and perfectionist standards that only punish you.
Self-Discrepancy Theory, Made Practical - Redefine what counts as a win
Explicitly count showing up — even imperfectly — as a win, not only full performance.
Celebrating Small Wins - Hold high standards inside high safety
Safety without standards is comfort; standards without safety is fear. You need both axes high.
Psychological Safety, Made Practical - Create psychological safety around missing a stretch target
Stretch goals only produce honest effort when missing them is treated as data, not failure.
Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire - Define "done" before you start
Specify the minimum criteria for a complete output before beginning, so you have a clear stop condition.
Parkinson's Law, Made Practical - Set realistic goals and chip away at them — resist "crush it" culture
Aspirational goals that require heroic effort normalize crisis; realistic goals with steady progress normalize calm.
Designing a Calm Company (Fried & Hansson)
Related concerns
- Low Expectations High Goals
Defensive pessimism sets low expectations to manage anxiety, not low standards to reduce effort.
Hold low expectations while keeping high standards
- Prevent Burnout Through Minimums
Define the minimum for each domain that, if crossed, signals an emergency — and protect those floors.
Set a non-negotiable floor for each burner
- Unrealistic Standards
Distinguish between aspirational standards that stretch you and perfectionist standards that only punish you.
Recalibrate ideal-self standards when they are unreachably high
- What Is My Minimum
The minimum must be so small that saying no feels more embarrassing than just doing it.
Set an absurdly small daily minimum
- When Designing A Calm Company Chip Away At Goals
Aspirational goals that require heroic effort normalize crisis; realistic goals with steady progress normalize calm.
Set realistic goals and chip away at them — resist "crush it" culture
- Exceed Expectations Discipline
Hire self-disciplined people, then give them freedom within a clear framework.
Build a culture of discipline, not a disciplinarian culture
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