Coaching practices for Hatzigeorgiadis Self Talk

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• When a problem gets hard my mind just goes quiet and blank and I sort of stall out staring at it
• I want to fix what I say to myself when I compete, but if I’m honest I can’t even reliably remember what that was
• The second I’m hurting, the voice in my head turns cold and contemptuous and piles on
• I’d never speak to anyone else the way I speak to myself
• While I’m actually performing there’s this running commentary telling me I’m blowing it, and I take every word of it as fact in the moment

Practices that may help

1. Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
   Self-talk — the internal or external commentary we generate before and during performance — reliably affects performance outcomes, according to meta-analyses by Hatzigeorgiadis and colleagues. Instructional self-talk improves fine motor skill; motivational self-talk improves power and endurance tasks. The specific content and function of the self-talk matter more than whether it is positive or negative.
2. Use self-directed speech to regulate problem-solving
   Talk yourself through a hard task aloud; private speech is an internalized coaching voice.
   Zone of Proximal Development: Learning at Your Real Edge
3. Monitor your self-talk patterns to identify what to change
   Track what you actually say to yourself during and after performance before trying to change it.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
4. Warm self-talk
   Speak to yourself in distress the way you would speak to a struggling friend — warmly, honestly, and without blame.
   Self-Soothing, Made Practical
5. Replace critic monologue with compassionate self-talk
   Speak to yourself the way you would speak to a close friend in the same situation.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
6. Self-Distancing: Thinking Clearly About Your Own Problems
   Self-distancing means stepping back from your own experience and reasoning about it as if it were happening to someone else. Experiments find that distanced reflection and using your own name or "you" instead of "I" reduce emotional reactivity and improve reasoning under stress, though effects are modest and depend on actually adopting the outside view.
7. Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
   Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
   The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
8. Prepare "if-then" self-talk scripts for predictable pressure moments
   Pre-script your self-talk response to the specific situations most likely to derail you.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
9. Talk to yourself in the third person
   Use your own name or "you" instead of "I" when working through a hard moment.
   Self-Distancing: Thinking Clearly About Your Own Problems
10. Use "we" language to describe your struggles
    Shift from "I always fail at this" to "this is something a lot of us find hard."
    Common Humanity, Made Practical

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