Coaching practices for Havening Before Performance

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  • I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
  • Right at the moment I need to commit and execute, my mind is still half-cluttered with second-guessing and stray thoughts
  • Right before I perform I keep picturing the win or the trophy, and it gets me amped but my body still feels unrehearsed for the actual moves
  • Every time I face the same kind of high-stakes moment my nerves hit me cold and unpredictable, and I want some small repeatable thing I do beforehand
  • Right before something big my nerve drains out and I forget I’ve ever done this well

Practices that may help

  1. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
    Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
  2. Install a focus cue as the final routine step
    End every pre-performance routine with one specific cue that triggers full attentional commitment to the task.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  3. Include a brief process imagery step in your routine
    Mentally rehearse the execution process — not the outcome — as part of your preparation sequence.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  4. Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
    Pre-performance routines are standardized behavioral and mental sequences performed before a performance that direct attention, manage arousal, and activate well-rehearsed movement patterns. Sport psychology research (particularly Stuart Cotterill’s work) and multiple meta-analyses find they reliably improve consistency and reduce performance variability across athletic and skill-based tasks.
  5. Create a pre-performance ritual that includes posture
    A consistent pre-performance ritual — including posture — reduces anxiety and improves performance more reliably than any single element.
    Power Posing Revisited
  6. Use mastery imagery to build confidence before high-stakes performances
    Replay previous best performances in imagery before high-pressure situations.
    Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
  7. Standardize the duration of your routine
    Fix the length of your pre-performance sequence so timing does not become a pressure variable.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  8. Design your pre-performance sequence with clear functional anchors
    Build a sequence where every step serves a specific psychological function — not just habit.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  9. Set your posture before high-stakes moments
    Take a private moment to settle into a confident posture before a presentation or hard talk.
    Posture and Confidence, Honestly Explained
  10. Protect the strategy from well-meaning optimism
    Recognize that others’ "positive thinking" attempts before your performance will disrupt your preparation — and manage that proactively.
    Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical

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