Coaching practices for Pre Performance Calming

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
• Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank
• When the nerves hit, my warm-up stretches on and on as I fidget and re-do things, and that very dragging-out is the tell that I’m rattled
• Everyone tells me to "just stay calm" before the big moment, but calm leaves me flat and underpowered
• Right before something big, the people around me pile on the "you’ll be amazing, don’t worry"

Practices that may help

1. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
   Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
   Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
2. Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
   Pre-performance routines are standardized behavioral and mental sequences performed before a performance that direct attention, manage arousal, and activate well-rehearsed movement patterns. Sport psychology research (particularly Stuart Cotterill’s work) and multiple meta-analyses find they reliably improve consistency and reduce performance variability across athletic and skill-based tasks.
3. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
   Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
   The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
4. Standardize the duration of your routine
   Fix the length of your pre-performance sequence so timing does not become a pressure variable.
   Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
5. Regulate emotional tone as part of performance preparation
   Identify the specific emotional tone (challenged, confident, competitive, calm) your IPS requires — and practice producing it.
   The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical
6. Protect the strategy from well-meaning optimism
   Recognize that others’ "positive thinking" attempts before your performance will disrupt your preparation — and manage that proactively.
   Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical
7. Set your posture before high-stakes moments
   Take a private moment to settle into a confident posture before a presentation or hard talk.
   Posture and Confidence, Honestly Explained
8. Install a focus cue as the final routine step
   End every pre-performance routine with one specific cue that triggers full attentional commitment to the task.
   Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
9. Match your routine’s arousal level to the task demand
   Fine-tune whether your routine should up-regulate or down-regulate your energy before the performance.
   Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
10. Create a pre-performance ritual that includes posture
    A consistent pre-performance ritual — including posture — reduces anxiety and improves performance more reliably than any single element.
    Power Posing Revisited

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