Coaching practices for Havening Strokes for Anxiety

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I’m flooded and my thoughts are useless right now
  • My anxiety lives in my body
  • I always wait until I’m already in full panic to try to calm down, and by then it’s too far gone for anything to work
  • I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
  • I don’t want to only scramble for calm once I’m already in pieces

Practices that may help

  1. Arm havening stroke
    Slowly stroke both forearms from shoulder to elbow while keeping attention off the distress.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
  2. Exercise to lower anxiety
    Use movement to discharge physical arousal and recalibrate the alarm system.
    Exercise for Mental Health
  3. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
    Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  4. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
    Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
  5. The Havening Place (safe-place induction)
    Combine havening strokes with a vividly imagined calm location to deepen resource anchoring.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
  6. Improve CO2 tolerance to reduce anxiety sensitivity
    The 7-count hold in 4-7-8 builds CO2 tolerance — a key factor in anxiety reactivity and panic thresholds.
    4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical
  7. Rapid relaxation: achieve a relaxation response in 20–30 seconds
    Deploy a practiced, condensed relaxation sequence the moment anxiety begins rising.
    Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
  8. Allow the sensations without resisting
    Let the physical feelings of anxiety be present instead of bracing against them.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  9. Rehearse the response before you need it
    Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  10. Tai chi for anxiety and depression
    Three months of regular tai chi practice reduces anxiety and depression symptoms with effect sizes comparable to conventional exercise.
    Tai Chi: The Evidence for a Mind-Body Practice

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