Coaching practices for Run Toward Anxiety

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  • I spend my days bracing for the next wave of it, scanning my body, dreading the moment it shows up
  • My anxiety lives in my body
  • The second I feel my heart pound or my chest tighten I clench up and try to force it to stop, and the fighting just cranks it higher
  • I can feel the wave starting to build
  • I always wait until I’m already in full panic to try to calm down, and by then it’s too far gone for anything to work

Practices that may help

  1. Run toward the feeling
    Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  2. Exercise to lower anxiety
    Use movement to discharge physical arousal and recalibrate the alarm system.
    Exercise for Mental Health
  3. Allow the sensations without resisting
    Let the physical feelings of anxiety be present instead of bracing against them.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  4. Rapid relaxation: achieve a relaxation response in 20–30 seconds
    Deploy a practiced, condensed relaxation sequence the moment anxiety begins rising.
    Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
  5. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
    Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  6. The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
    The DARE response, popularized by Barry McDonagh, is an acceptance-based way to meet anxiety and panic: Defuse the scary thought, Allow the sensations without resisting, Run toward (rather than away from) the feeling, and Engage with life again. Its logic lines up with what exposure- and acceptance-based approaches do — you stop reinforcing fear by fighting or fleeing it. These are self-help skills for everyday anxiety; for severe or persistent panic, work alongside a qualified professional.
  7. Run the full 5-4-3-2-1 sequence
    Work through all five senses in order: 5 things seen, 4 heard, 3 touched, 2 smelled, 1 tasted.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  8. Engage with the present moment
    Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  9. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
    Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  10. Rehearse the response before you need it
    Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical

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