Coaching practices for Helping a Child Who Panics and Runs Away at the Mere Mention of 'doctor'
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’ve built up all these little rituals to get through it
- The instant it hits in a store or a meeting, the only thought is get out now
- I’ll force myself into the scary thing, but the second the panic peaks I bolt for the exit because it feels unbearable
- The moment I notice a flutter or a tingle, my mind instantly slaps a catastrophe on it
- Now I’m scared of the feelings themselves
Practices that may help
- Identify and reduce safety behaviors
Notice the things you do to prevent catastrophe during panic — and experiment with dropping them.
The Clark Panic Model, Made Practical - Stay in the situation for the full arc
Leave only after the attack has peaked and begun to subside — not in the middle, no matter how strong the urge.
Panic Surfing - Stay in the situation until anxiety drops
Remain in the feared situation long enough for distress to fall — leaving early teaches the wrong lesson.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Post-induction body scan to observe without catastrophizing
After inducing sensations, scan the body with curiosity rather than alarm.
Interoceptive Exposure for Panic - Interoceptive exposure: deliberately induce the feared sensations
Reproduce the physical sensations of panic in a safe, controlled way to break the sensation-fear link.
The Clark Panic Model, Made Practical - Name it to tame it: tell the story of the big feeling
Help the child narrate what happened and how it felt — storytelling is brain integration.
The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson) - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Drop the safety behaviors
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Identify the catastrophic misinterpretation
Name exactly which bodily sensation you are having and exactly what you fear it means.
The Clark Panic Model, Made Practical - Interoceptive exposure for physical anxiety sensations
Deliberately produce feared bodily sensations (racing heart, dizziness) to learn they are tolerable.
Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
Related concerns
- Acceptance Panic Attack
After inducing sensations, scan the body with curiosity rather than alarm.
Post-induction body scan to observe without catastrophizing
- Allow Panic Feelings
Reproduce the physical sensations of panic in a safe, controlled way to break the sensation-fear link.
Interoceptive exposure: deliberately induce the feared sensations
- Cognitive Therapy Panic Safety
Notice the things you do to prevent catastrophe during panic — and experiment with dropping them.
Identify and reduce safety behaviors
- How To Stop A Panic Attack Cognitively
Observe sensations with neutral curiosity rather than distracting from them — the curiosity interrupts the threat appraisal.
Use somatic tracking instead of distraction
- Allow Panic Sensations
Reproduce the physical sensations of panic in a safe, controlled way to break the sensation-fear link.
- Alternative Explanations Panic
List all other things that could plausibly cause the sensation you're experiencing.
Generate alternative, benign explanations for the sensation
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