Coaching practices for High Support High Direction
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- When I push my team on the hard stuff they either shut down and start blaming each other or just nod and carry on as before
- There’s this blunt, results-only person I deal with who visibly tunes out the second I start laying groundwork
- I treat my whole team the same way and run the same kind of one-on-one with everyone, and it’s landing flat
- I keep lurching from one big new initiative to the next, each one wiping out whatever momentum the last was building, and I’m exhausted with nothing to show
- I chase everything completely alone, telling no one and treating asking for support as weakness
Practices that may help
- Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Coaching — high direction and high support for the disillusioned learner
When early enthusiasm dips but skill is still forming, combine clear guidance with active encouragement.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Delegating — hand over both direction and decision
With a skilled, committed performer, give the goal and the authority, then get out of the way.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Directing — high direction for the eager novice
With someone new and keen but unskilled, give clear, specific instruction and tight structure.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Regulate the level of distress in the system
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Communicate effectively with Dominance-style people
Lead with the bottom line, be brief, and make the decision pathway clear.
DISC Behavioral Styles - Treat each person as an individual with distinct needs and aspirations
Know what each team member needs to grow and provide support tailored to them.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical - Build the flywheel through consistent small pushes
Great results come from sustained, consistent effort in one direction — not a single dramatic transformation.
Level 5 Leadership: Humility and Will in Great Leaders - Meet the relatedness need
Connect the work to people — support, shared purpose, or being seen.
Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable - Balance FAST with DEAR MAN when the relationship and the goal are both at stake
Use DEAR MAN for what you want, GIVE for the relationship, and FAST for yourself — and know which to weight when they conflict.
FAST: DBT’s Skill for Maintaining Self-Respect in Relationships
Related concerns
- Sustained Effort Leadership
Great results come from sustained, consistent effort in one direction — not a single dramatic transformation.
Build the flywheel through consistent small pushes
- Directing Leadership Style
Influence others more through example, listening, and restraint than through assertion and command.
Leading from behind — the servant leader stance
- Does Situational Leadership Work
Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law.
- Low Direction High Support
For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
- Situational Leadership At Work
Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law.
- Situational Leadership Criticism
Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law.
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