Coaching practices for Situational Leadership Criticism

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve quietly filed each person on my team as strong or weak, and then I’m baffled when my "strong" one flounders on something new
• I lead a team and I’ve realized the people I lean on most are the ones who remind me of myself or are just easy to be around
• I’ve basically written my team off as weak
• When I push my team on the hard stuff they either shut down and start blaming each other or just nod and carry on as before
• I honestly can’t tell where I stand with my boss

Practices that may help

1. Situational Leadership, Made Practical
   Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law.
2. Build the flexibility to switch styles
   The skill the model actually demands is style range — most leaders overuse one default.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
3. Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
   For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
4. Assess readiness task by task, not person by person
   Rate competence and commitment for the specific task in front of them, not the person overall.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
5. Coaching — high direction and high support for the disillusioned learner
   When early enthusiasm dips but skill is still forming, combine clear guidance with active encouragement.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
6. Manage LMX differentiation fairly as a leader
   Acknowledge that you develop different relationships with different people — and ensure the differences are earned, not arbitrary.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
7. Directing — high direction for the eager novice
   With someone new and keen but unskilled, give clear, specific instruction and tight structure.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
8. There are no bad teams, only bad leaders
   The same people perform differently under different leadership — so start with the leadership.
   Extreme Ownership, Made Practical
9. Regulate the level of distress in the system
   Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
   Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
10. Assess the current quality of your leader-member relationship
    Honestly diagnose where you stand in the relationship before trying to improve it.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical

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