Coaching practices for How Do I Deal with an Unproductive Colleague in a Small Company

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I keep assuming the fix for being stretched is to hire more people, but every time we grow we somehow move slower and spend the day just keeping each other in the loop
• I keep dropping problems on my boss’s desk and waiting for them to tell me what to do, and I can feel it reads as me not owning my work
• The hard part isn’t spotting the busywork
• My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
• I send my boss the careful, detailed write-ups I’d want to receive and they barely skim them, and I keep blaming the content

Practices that may help

1. Protect the advantages of small — resist headcount as a measure of success
   Adding people to a team adds communication overhead faster than it adds output — protect the productivity of small.
   Designing a Calm Company (Fried & Hansson)
2. Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
   Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
3. Actively cut or delegate the trivial 80%
   Systematically reduce or hand off activities in the bottom 80% of your impact distribution.
   The Pareto Principle: 80/20 for Personal Productivity
4. Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
   Managing up means proactively understanding your manager’s priorities, communication style, and constraints — then adapting how you work and communicate to make the partnership effective. Done well it is collaborative rather than manipulative: it reduces friction, builds trust, and creates space for greater autonomy. The evidence base is primarily organizational behavior research on leader-member exchange and practitioner consensus.
5. Send proactive, brief status updates
   Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
6. Adapt to your manager’s communication style
   Match your manager’s preferred level of detail, pace, and channel — not theirs to yours.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
7. Push recommendations up, not problems
   Require reports to bring a recommendation alongside any problem — it’s a delegation practice, not just a time-saver.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
8. Productive Disagreement, Made Practical
   Productive disagreement is possible when participants separate the goal of "winning" from the goal of reaching the best available conclusion. Research on epistemic practices suggests steel-manning, curiosity-before-rebuttal, and explicit norm-setting consistently reduce defensiveness and improve shared reasoning, though strong controlled trial evidence for most specific techniques is limited.
9. Repair a damaged leader-follower relationship deliberately
   Take active steps to reset a deteriorated relationship, rather than allowing avoidance to compound the damage.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
10. Save admin tasks for your cognitive trough
    Assign low-cognition administrative tasks to the time of day when your focus is naturally lowest.
    Task Batching: Grouping Similar Work to Cut Switching Costs

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