Coaching practices for How Do You Make a Big Decision

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• I agonize for days over tiny choices I could undo in a second, then rush the big ones I can’t take back
• I’m stuck at the edge of a huge life decision and the fear right now is so loud it’s drowning everything else out
• I’m facing a big decision and I keep weighing only how it plays out over the next year or two
• I’m agonizing over this choice like it’s carved in stone and I can never come back from it, paralyzed by a downside that has me frozen
• I rush the big, costly decisions the same way I rush picking lunch

Practices that may help

1. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
   Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
   Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
2. Project to age 80 and look back
   Ask which choice your 80-year-old self will least regret.
   The Regret-Minimization Framework
3. The seventh-generation test for decisions
   Before a major choice, ask how it will affect people seven generations from now.
   The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life
4. Check reversibility before you fear the downside
   Most decisions are reversible; reserve maximum caution for the few that aren’t.
   The Regret-Minimization Framework
5. Slow down for high-stakes, irreversible decisions
   Match deliberation to the cost of being wrong: spend System 2 where reversal is hard.
   Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable
6. Slow down on one-way doors
   For irreversible decisions, invest in deliberation proportional to the downside — not to your confidence.
   The Two-Way Door
7. Use the 10-year view to check values alignment
   Ask: is the 10-year version of this choice consistent with what I actually care about?
   The 10-10-10 Rule
8. Sleep on important decisions
   For complex decisions, delay commitment overnight — sleep processing integrates information deliberate thought misses.
   The Three Bs of Creativity: Bed, Bath, and Bus
9. Map the argument before you commit to a decision
   Create a quick argument map as a pre-commitment check on major decisions.
   Argument Mapping
10. Stay inside for high-stakes, irreversible decisions
    Reserve your autonomous judgment for decisions within your circle; get help for the rest.
    Circle of Competence

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