Coaching practices for How Leaders Accidentally Diminish
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’m well-meaning and I think I’m being helpful
- My team has gone quiet and careful around me
- I say "this is yours" but the moment it starts wobbling I swoop in and take it back, and I’m realizing that hovering and rescuing tells people they were never really trusted to own it
- I lead a team and I’ve realized the people I lean on most are the ones who remind me of myself or are just easy to be around
- There are people on my team I’ve quietly written off
Practices that may help
- Watch for the accidental diminisher patterns in yourself
Most Diminishers are not aware they are diminishing — the behaviors that made them effective as individuals undermine them as leaders.
Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them - Create space — be a liberator, not a tyrant
Multipliers create an environment where people’s best thinking is expected and safe; Diminishers create tension that shuts thinking down.
Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them - Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them
Liz Wiseman’s research found that the best leaders — Multipliers — extract far more capability from their people than average leaders do, not by being smarter, but by creating conditions where others’ intelligence can fully operate. Diminishers, the opposite, may be brilliant and well-intentioned but systematically suppress the thinking around them. The research is interview-based across multiple organizations — observational, not experimental — but the mechanisms align with well-established research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and psychological safety. - Invest in people’s ownership: give stakes and stay back
Multipliers give full ownership and hold people responsible; Diminishers over-resource and under-trust.
Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them - Manage LMX differentiation fairly as a leader
Acknowledge that you develop different relationships with different people — and ensure the differences are earned, not arbitrary.
Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical - Deliberately expand your inner circle
Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical - Channel ambition to the institution, not yourself
Care more about the organization’s success than your personal legacy.
Level 5 Leadership: Humility and Will in Great Leaders - There are no bad teams, only bad leaders
The same people perform differently under different leadership — so start with the leadership.
Extreme Ownership, Made Practical - Give voice to those with uncomfortable perspectives
Actively surface and protect the dissenting or marginal voices the system wants to silence.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Model fallibility — be the first to admit you don’t know
The leader’s own admitted mistakes set the price of honesty for everyone below them.
Psychological Safety, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Multiplier Vs Diminisher Leader
Liz Wiseman’s research found that the best leaders — Multipliers — extract far more capability from their people than average leaders do, not by being smarter, but by creating conditions where others’ intelligence can fully operate. Diminishers, the opposite, may be brilliant and well-intentioned but systematically suppress the thinking around them. The research is interview-based across multiple organizations — observational, not experimental — but the mechanisms align with well-established research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and psychological safety.
- Debate Maker Leadership Multipliers
Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
Make decisions through debate, not declaration
- Generation Effect Leadership
Most Diminishers are not aware they are diminishing — the behaviors that made them effective as individuals undermine them as leaders.
Watch for the accidental diminisher patterns in yourself
- How To Be A Multiplier Leader
Liz Wiseman’s research found that the best leaders — Multipliers — extract far more capability from their people than average leaders do, not by being smarter, but by creating conditions where others’ intelligence can fully operate. Diminishers, the opposite, may be brilliant and well-intentioned but systematically suppress the thinking around them. The research is interview-based across multiple organizations — observational, not experimental — but the mechanisms align with well-established research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and psychological safety.
- Liberator Vs Tyrant Leadership
Influence others more through example, listening, and restraint than through assertion and command.
Leading from behind — the servant leader stance
- Multipliers How Leaders Amplify The Intelligence Around Them After A Loss
Liz Wiseman’s research found that the best leaders — Multipliers — extract far more capability from their people than average leaders do, not by being smarter, but by creating conditions where others’ intelligence can fully operate. Diminishers, the opposite, may be brilliant and well-intentioned but systematically suppress the thinking around them. The research is interview-based across multiple organizations — observational, not experimental — but the mechanisms align with well-established research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and psychological safety.
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