Coaching practices for How to Address Objections Before They Arise

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• I have to make an ask that I know is going to land as self-serving or unfair, and I’m dreading the moment they think it
• I’m dreading this talk because I know they’re already thinking the worst of me
• I’m walking into this knowing exactly what they’re probably thinking about me
• When I disagree with someone I go straight for the rebuttal, and even when I’m right it makes them defensive and nothing changes
• There’s one obvious hole in my case and I keep wanting to just not mention it

Practices that may help

1. Run an accusation audit before difficult asks
   Name the worst things the other person might think about you or your request — before they do.
   Labeling Emotions in Negotiation, Made Practical
2. The accusation audit
   Pre-empt their worst objections by saying them out loud before they can.
   Tactical Empathy
3. The accusation audit
   Say the worst thing they might be thinking about you — out loud, first — to defuse it.
   Never Split the Difference, In Practice
4. Apply Dennett’s four rules for critical commentary
   Before criticizing: restate charitably, list agreements, name what you’ve learned, then — and only then — rebut.
   Steelmanning
5. Use two-sided messages with a sophisticated audience
   Acknowledge the strongest objection, then refute it — this is more persuasive than ignoring it.
   Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
6. Ask what alternative perspectives would say
   Deliberately steelman the strongest objection to your current position before treating it as settled.
   Socratic Questioning
7. Practice "Tell me more" — defer rebuttal until genuine understanding
   Respond to an opposing view with curiosity before you respond with counter-argument.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
8. Steelman objections to your own plans
   Before committing to a plan, state the strongest case against it in its most compelling form.
   Steelmanning
9. Apply reciprocity in feedback conversations
   Offer a genuine concession or acknowledgment of your own role before asking someone to change.
   The Rule of Reciprocity, Made Practical
10. Open with genuine appreciation before raising the concern
    A real acknowledgment of something your partner does well before a complaint isn’t manipulation — it’s context.
    The Soft Startup: How You Begin a Difficult Conversation Determines How It Ends

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