Coaching practices for How to Avoid Future Regret

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• I keep going back and forth on whether to take the leap or play it safe, and what I really want to know is which one the older me will lie awake wishing I’d chosen
• I’m standing at a real fork right now and going in circles
• I can almost hear my older self looking back at the choices I’m making right now, and I’m scared it’s with regret
• All I can picture is how much it’ll hurt if I try this and it blows up in my face, so I keep not doing it
• All I can feel is how much I’ll regret wasting everything I’ve already put in if I stop

Practices that may help

1. Use the 10-year horizon as a regret test
   Ask: in 10 years, will I regret not doing this more than doing it?
   The 10-10-10 Rule
2. Filter decisions through "what would future me thank me for?"
   Before significant decisions, ask whether your future self will be grateful or resentful.
   Future Self Continuity, Made Practical
3. Write a letter from your future self to your present self
   Ask your 70-year-old self to write back to you now — with gratitude or regret.
   Future Self Continuity, Made Practical
4. Weigh action regret against inaction regret
   Over a lifetime, the regrets that linger are usually the things you didn’t do.
   The Regret-Minimization Framework
5. Use regret minimization as a forward-looking check
   At 80, which will you regret more — stopping now, or having continued into a deeper hole?
   The Sunk Cost Fallacy: Escaping Bad Investments
6. Apply the regret minimization frame
   Ask “Which choice will I regret more at 80?” — people consistently underestimate regret for inactions.
   Status Quo Bias — Why We Stick with the Default
7. Project to age 80 and look back
   Ask which choice your 80-year-old self will least regret.
   The Regret-Minimization Framework
8. Apply the deathbed test to current decisions
   When facing a trade-off, ask which option the future you will wish you had chosen.
   The Bucket List Method
9. The premortem (imagine the project already failed)
   Before starting, assume the plan has already failed and ask why — then fix it now.
   Premeditatio Malorum, in Depth
10. Separate the regret you’ll keep from the fear you’ll forget
    Today’s fear is loud but temporary; ask what will still matter in a year.
    The Regret-Minimization Framework

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