Coaching practices for How to Avoid Temptation

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• The temptation is right there every single day
• When I’m trying to resist something I keep it right in front of me and stare it down, telling myself "just don’t"
• I keep trying to white-knuckle my way past the same temptations sitting right in front of me, losing more often than I win
• The same urge gets me every time
• The junk is right there in the cupboard and the app is one tap on my home screen, and I lose the same little battle a dozen times a day because the temptation is constantly in front of me

Practices that may help

1. Engineer the temptation out of reach
   Don’t out-wait the temptation — arrange your environment so the choice rarely arises.
   Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
2. Redirect attention away from the reward
   You do not resist the temptation by staring at it — you win by looking elsewhere.
   Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
3. Remove temptations from the environment rather than resisting them
   People with good self-control succeed by avoiding temptation, not by resisting it.
   Self-Regulation Failure and Ego Depletion
4. Write an if–then plan for your most predictable temptation
   "If I feel the urge to [temptation], then I will [alternative action] instead."
   If–Then Planning, Made Practical
5. Reduce the demand on willpower through environment design
   The most reliably self-disciplined people resist temptation less — they encounter it less.
   The Willpower Instinct: What Self-Control Actually Is
6. Arm an if-then plan for the impulsive moment
   Decide in advance exactly what you’ll do when the urge hits, so the impulse meets a plan.
   Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
7. Temptation Bundling, Made Practical
   Temptation bundling — pairing something you want to do with something you should do — has direct experimental support from Katherine Milkman’s gym-attendance research, where bundling audiobooks with exercise meaningfully increased visits. Effects are real but decay over time and after disruptions, so bundling is a habit-starter rather than a permanent motivator.
8. Buy time with a brief delay
   Commit to waiting just ten minutes before acting on the urge.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
9. Temptation bundling
   Allow yourself a wanted indulgence only while doing the behavior you avoid.
   Reward Substitution
10. Design a bundle where the want is only available during the should
    Make the temptation exclusively accessible during the healthy behavior — restriction is the active ingredient.
    Temptation Bundling, Made Practical

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