Coaching practices for Remove Temptation

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  • The temptation is right there every single day
  • The thing that derails me is always one tap or one arm’s reach away, and I lose to it the same way every single day
  • The same urge gets me every time
  • I keep trying to white-knuckle my way past the same temptations sitting right in front of me, losing more often than I win
  • I told myself I’d only watch my show while on the treadmill, but I just watch it whenever I feel like it, so there’s no reason left to actually get on the machine

Practices that may help

  1. Engineer the temptation out of reach
    Don’t out-wait the temptation — arrange your environment so the choice rarely arises.
    Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
  2. Remove the option entirely
    Delete the temptation from your environment so resisting it is never required.
    Precommitment Devices (Ulysses Contracts)
  3. Write an if–then plan for your most predictable temptation
    "If I feel the urge to [temptation], then I will [alternative action] instead."
    If–Then Planning, Made Practical
  4. Remove temptations from the environment rather than resisting them
    People with good self-control succeed by avoiding temptation, not by resisting it.
    Self-Regulation Failure and Ego Depletion
  5. Design a bundle where the want is only available during the should
    Make the temptation exclusively accessible during the healthy behavior — restriction is the active ingredient.
    Temptation Bundling, Made Practical
  6. Make an irrevocable decision about a recurring temptation
    Remove the choice entirely in the moment of highest temptation by deciding now, permanently.
    Commitment Contracts, Made Practical
  7. Redirect attention away from the reward
    You do not resist the temptation by staring at it — you win by looking elsewhere.
    Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
  8. Temptation Bundling, Made Practical
    Temptation bundling — pairing something you want to do with something you should do — has direct experimental support from Katherine Milkman’s gym-attendance research, where bundling audiobooks with exercise meaningfully increased visits. Effects are real but decay over time and after disruptions, so bundling is a habit-starter rather than a permanent motivator.
  9. Remove or modify the cue rather than resist the response
    Eliminating or changing the environmental stimulus is more effective than relying on willpower to resist it.
    Stimulus Control, Made Practical
  10. Reduce the demand on willpower through environment design
    The most reliably self-disciplined people resist temptation less — they encounter it less.
    The Willpower Instinct: What Self-Control Actually Is

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