Coaching practices for How to Be Less Certain
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’ll declare I’m totally sure about something, but the instant I imagine actually putting real money on it my stomach tightens
- I keep saying I’m certain about this, but the second I imagine actually putting real money on it I get this twist of hesitation
- I feel completely sure about this decision, which is honestly starting to make me nervous
- I’m sure about things constantly and I have no idea if that confidence is earned
- I slap a confident-sounding percentage on things I genuinely have no basis to estimate, just to seem rational
Practices that may help
- Put stakes on your beliefs — even hypothetically
Ask: "Would I bet on this?" to separate genuine confidence from performed confidence.
The Scout Mindset - Translate beliefs into bets to reveal your true confidence
Would you bet $100 on that belief at even odds? The answer often reveals the gap between claimed and actual confidence.
Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally - Ask 'What am I missing?' before major decisions
Treat a confident feeling before a high-stakes decision as a cue to check what your competence map is omitting.
Circle of Competence - Practice probabilistic calibration by tracking your predictions
Assign explicit probability estimates to your predictions and track whether they come true at the right rate.
Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds - Distinguish uncertainty (quantifiable) from ignorance (unquantifiable)
Know when you can assign a probability and when the situation is so novel that a number would be fabricated.
Calibration Training - Admit uncertainty out loud, especially in your own domain
Say 'I don’t know’ clearly — it raises the quality of the conversation and your decisions.
Circle of Competence - Run uncertainty experiments
Deliberately leave small things uncertain and observe what actually happens.
Accepting Uncertainty: The Core Skill in CBT for GAD - Practice calibration by tracking your confidence predictions
Your "80% confident" beliefs should come true about 80% of the time — check that they do.
Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally - Think and communicate in explicit probabilities
Replace vague language ("probably," "likely") with numerical probabilities.
Superforecasting - Practice confidence interval estimation
Estimate ranges for factual quantities and check how often the true value falls within your range.
Calibration Training
Related concerns
- Confidence Vs Certainty
Ask: "Would I bet on this?" to separate genuine confidence from performed confidence.
Put stakes on your beliefs — even hypothetically
- Stable Confidence
Start your confidence estimate from the historical hit rate for this type of prediction, not from how confident you feel.
Anchor your confidence level on base rates, not gut feel
- Stable Confidence Base
Start your confidence estimate from the historical hit rate for this type of prediction, not from how confident you feel.
- When Base Rate Neglect Calibration Practice
Assign explicit probability estimates to your predictions and track whether they come true at the right rate.
Practice probabilistic calibration by tracking your predictions
- When Fermi Estimation Estimate In Ranges
Instead of "my estimate is 500," say "I think it is between 200 and 2000."
Estimate in ranges, not point estimates
- Probability Accuracy
Assign explicit probability estimates to your predictions and track whether they come true at the right rate.
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