Coaching practices for I'm Sure About Things Constantly and I Have No Idea If That Confidence is Earned I've Never Once Gone Back to See How Often the Things I Felt Certain About Actually Came True

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  • I’m sure about things constantly and I have no idea if that confidence is earned
  • When I say I’m eighty percent sure I genuinely don’t know if that means anything
  • My confidence comes straight from how good a story I can tell myself about this particular case, and the more vivid the story the surer I get
  • I keep being so sure I’m right and then being wrong, and I have no way to see whether my confidence actually means anything
  • I’ll declare I’m totally sure about something, but the instant I imagine actually putting real money on it my stomach tightens

Practices that may help

  1. Practice probabilistic calibration by tracking your predictions
    Assign explicit probability estimates to your predictions and track whether they come true at the right rate.
    Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds
  2. Practice calibration by tracking your confidence predictions
    Your "80% confident" beliefs should come true about 80% of the time — check that they do.
    Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally
  3. Anchor your confidence level on base rates, not gut feel
    Start your confidence estimate from the historical hit rate for this type of prediction, not from how confident you feel.
    Calibration Training
  4. Track your calibration across many predictions
    Score your confidence levels against outcomes over dozens of predictions to find your systematic biases.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  5. Put stakes on your beliefs — even hypothetically
    Ask: "Would I bet on this?" to separate genuine confidence from performed confidence.
    The Scout Mindset
  6. Translate beliefs into bets to reveal your true confidence
    Would you bet $100 on that belief at even odds? The answer often reveals the gap between claimed and actual confidence.
    Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally
  7. Maintain a scored prediction log
    Record predictions with explicit probabilities and score them when they resolve.
    Calibration Training
  8. Ask 'What am I missing?' before major decisions
    Treat a confident feeling before a high-stakes decision as a cue to check what your competence map is omitting.
    Circle of Competence
  9. Practice confidence interval estimation
    Estimate ranges for factual quantities and check how often the true value falls within your range.
    Calibration Training
  10. Practice probability calibration
    Regularly make probabilistic predictions and track your accuracy across many of them.
    Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect

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