Coaching practices for How to Break a Bad Habit

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• Every time I try to break this habit I just try to white-knuckle it away and grit my teeth through the craving
• I keep doing this thing I swear I’ll stop, and I genuinely can’t say what sets it off or what I’m even getting out of it
• I only ever realize I’ve been picking (or pulling, or biting) after it’s already done
• I’ve been trying to dodge the whole trigger
• My motivation runs out by day three every time and the habit just quietly dies

Practices that may help

1. Keep the cue and reward, swap the routine
   Duhigg’s “golden rule”: change a habit by inserting a new routine between the same cue and reward.
   The Power of Habit, Made Practical
2. Map the cue-routine-reward loop
   Break a habit into its three parts before you try to change anything.
   The Power of Habit, Made Practical
3. Build precise awareness of when and how the habit occurs
   You can’t interrupt what you can’t detect — map the habit sequence in granular detail.
   Habit Reversal Training, Made Practical
4. Fire the new routine on the original cue
   Leave the trigger in place and attach the new behavior to it, every time.
   Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
5. Don't break the chain
   Mark each day you do the habit and aim never to break the unbroken run of marks.
   Habit Tracking
6. Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit
   Create an anticipatory craving for the reward of a new behavior before the reward arrives.
   The Habit Loop, Made Practical
7. Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
   Habit substitution means you do not try to delete a bad habit; you keep the same cue and the same reward it delivers and swap only the routine in the middle for a better one. The cue-routine-reward structure is grounded in real neuroscience and the substitution logic aligns with clinical relapse-prevention practice, but the step-by-step substitution method is a practitioner application rather than a single controlled trial.
8. Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny
   Scale the habit down to something you can do even on your worst, busiest day.
   Tiny Habits, Made Practical
9. Shrink the habit until it is guaranteed
   Cut the behavior down until skipping it would be more effort than doing it.
   Micro Habits: Start Absurdly Small
10. Clarify the personal costs of the habit to sustain motivation
    HRT requires consistent effort — mapping specific ways the habit costs you makes that effort worth maintaining.
    Habit Reversal Training, Made Practical

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