Coaching practices for Why Habits Are Hard to Break

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• Every time I try to break this habit I just try to white-knuckle it away and grit my teeth through the craving
• I keep doing this thing I swear I’ll stop, and I genuinely can’t say what sets it off or what I’m even getting out of it
• My bad habits run on autopilot but the good one I’m trying to build never feels automatic
• The interrupting takes constant effort and a few good weeks in I just stop bothering
• I do great with a new habit until the first bad day

Practices that may help

1. Keep the cue and reward, swap the routine
   Duhigg’s “golden rule”: change a habit by inserting a new routine between the same cue and reward.
   The Power of Habit, Made Practical
2. Map the cue-routine-reward loop
   Break a habit into its three parts before you try to change anything.
   The Power of Habit, Made Practical
3. Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit
   Create an anticipatory craving for the reward of a new behavior before the reward arrives.
   The Habit Loop, Made Practical
4. Clarify the personal costs of the habit to sustain motivation
   HRT requires consistent effort — mapping specific ways the habit costs you makes that effort worth maintaining.
   Habit Reversal Training, Made Practical
5. Design the habit to be no-fail even on your worst day
   A habit that can be skipped on hard days will be skipped — the minimum must survive your worst-case day.
   Mini Habits, Made Practical
6. Don't break the chain
   Mark each day you do the habit and aim never to break the unbroken run of marks.
   Habit Tracking
7. Reduce the whole habit to one rule: don’t break the chain
   Replace a tangle of goals with a single instruction your brain can’t negotiate with.
   Don't Break the Chain: The Streak Method
8. Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny
   Scale the habit down to something you can do even on your worst, busiest day.
   Tiny Habits, Made Practical
9. Apply PDSA to a behavior you want to build or break
   Treat habit formation as a series of small experiments rather than a commitment you either keep or blow.
   Plan–Do–Study–Act: Deming’s Loop for Personal Improvement
10. Cultivate genuine belief that change is possible
    Habits stick permanently only when the person believes they can change — especially under stress.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical

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