Coaching practices for How to Build Motivation

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• Starting is the hard part — once I’m in I’m fine, but getting myself to begin takes everything.
• Every so often I get this burst of fire
• I’m completely unmotivated and I honestly can’t tell whether it’s that deep down I don’t believe I can pull this off, or that I just don’t care about it
• I keep setting goals I think I’m supposed to want, and the moment they get hard I just quit
• There’s a thing I keep meaning to do and just don’t, and I’ve been beating myself up for not wanting it enough

Practices that may help

1. Design a cue that reliably predicts a reward
   A cue that predicts reward eventually triggers the same dopamine response as the reward itself.
   Reward Prediction Error: Using Dopamine Science to Stay Motivated
2. Surf motivation waves rather than engineering baseline motivation
   Motivation is unreliable and peaks are temporary — use high-motivation moments to redesign prompts and ability, not just to behave better.
   The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical
3. Diagnose whether you are stuck on expectancy or value
   Before trying to motivate yourself, identify which of the two factors is actually low.
   Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
4. Capture compelling reasons why
   Write the emotional and practical reasons this result matters — the "why" that will sustain action under resistance.
   Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical
5. Design behavior with the Fogg Behavior Model (B=MAP)
   A behavior happens only when Motivation, Ability, and a Prompt arrive at the same moment.
   Tiny Habits, Made Practical
6. Meet the relatedness need
   Connect the work to people — support, shared purpose, or being seen.
   Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
7. Intrinsic motivation
   Drive yourself toward goals for internal reasons rather than only external reward or fear.
   Emotional Intelligence, Made Practical
8. Build agency thinking through small wins
   Agency — the belief you can move toward the goal — is rebuilt by doing, not by deciding.
   Hope Theory: Agency, Pathways, and Getting Unstuck
9. Convert the boost into a concrete plan
   Spend the landmark energy building the system, not just feeling motivated.
   The Fresh Start Effect
10. Schedule activities before you feel like doing them
    Block specific pleasant activities in your calendar this week — do not wait for motivation.
    Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical

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