Coaching practices for How to Cope with Medical Anxiety

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• The dread before a doctor’s appointment is a totally different beast than the dread before speaking up at work, but I keep trying to use the same all-purpose reminders for both
• I walk into hard situations white-knuckling to make sure nothing bad happens, so the second I feel any anxiety I read it as proof of danger and grab for a crutch
• I spend my days bracing for the next wave of it, scanning my body, dreading the moment it shows up
• The instant I feel my heart skip or my chest tighten, I’m sure something is really wrong with me, and the fear of the sensation spins it into something bigger
• Maybe the bad thing really could happen

Practices that may help

1. Make context-specific cards for your highest-trigger situations
   Generic cards help less than cards written for the exact situation where you need them — work, medical appointments, social events.
   The Coping Card
2. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
   Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
3. Run toward the feeling
   Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
4. Interoceptive awareness
   Practice noticing and naming body sensations neutrally, so they stop reading as alarms.
   The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
5. Ask: could you cope even if the worst happened?
   Catastrophizing also underestimates your coping capacity — examine that half of the equation.
   Decatastrophizing, Made Practical
6. Engage with the present moment
   Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
7. Rehearse the response before you need it
   Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
8. Gradually drop safety behaviors
   Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
   The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
9. Use somatic tracking instead of distraction
   Observe sensations with neutral curiosity rather than distracting from them — the curiosity interrupts the threat appraisal.
   Panic Surfing
10. Drop the safety behaviors
    Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical

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