Coaching practices for How to Cope with Severe Anxiety at Work

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• I only ever try a new way to handle this once I’m already deep in a full-blown wave, and by then I’m too far gone to think
• I walk into hard situations white-knuckling to make sure nothing bad happens, so the second I feel any anxiety I read it as proof of danger and grab for a crutch
• Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
• I spend my days bracing for the next wave of it, scanning my body, dreading the moment it shows up
• My list of no-go situations keeps quietly getting longer as the fear spreads, and the whole thing feels too overwhelming to face head-on

Practices that may help

1. Rehearse the response before you need it
   Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
2. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
   Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
3. Engage with the present moment
   Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
4. Run toward the feeling
   Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
5. Build an avoidance hierarchy and work through it systematically
   List all the situations you avoid because of anxiety, from least to most frightening, then work up the list.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
6. Ask: could you cope even if the worst happened?
   Catastrophizing also underestimates your coping capacity — examine that half of the equation.
   Decatastrophizing, Made Practical
7. Balanced, compassionate self-talk
   Talk to yourself as you would to a friend — accurate and kind, not harsh or falsely cheery.
   The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
8. Scale the catastrophe on an actual severity scale
   Rate the feared outcome on a 0–10 severity scale, then compare it to things you know are 10/10.
   Decatastrophizing, Made Practical
9. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
   Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
10. Make context-specific cards for your highest-trigger situations
    Generic cards help less than cards written for the exact situation where you need them — work, medical appointments, social events.
    The Coping Card

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