Coaching practices for How to Cope with Workplace Anxiety

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• My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
• I can stay calm rehearsing it in my living room, but the second I’m in the actual room it all falls apart
• I walk into hard situations white-knuckling to make sure nothing bad happens, so the second I feel any anxiety I read it as proof of danger and grab for a crutch
• Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
• I only ever try a new way to handle this once I’m already deep in a full-blown wave, and by then I’m too far gone to think

Practices that may help

1. Send proactive, brief status updates
   Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
2. The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
   A practical anxiety toolkit pulls together a handful of evidence-informed skills — grounding, breathing, interoceptive awareness, behavioral experiments, and balanced self-talk — so you have the right tool for the moment instead of one move for every situation. Several of these rest on solid clinical and experimental support. They are self-help skills for everyday stress and anxiety; for severe or persistent anxiety, use them alongside professional care.
3. Practice coping under graduated real-world stress
   Move from imagined stressors to mild real ones to full-intensity situations — always with your coping tools active.
   Stress Inoculation Training
4. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
   Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
5. Engage with the present moment
   Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
6. Rehearse the response before you need it
   Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
7. Make context-specific cards for your highest-trigger situations
   Generic cards help less than cards written for the exact situation where you need them — work, medical appointments, social events.
   The Coping Card
8. Debrief after each stressful encounter
   Within 24 hours of a challenging event, review what you did, what worked, and what you will adjust.
   Stress Inoculation Training
9. Worry stimulus control: confine worry to a designated time
   Schedule a 20-minute daily "worry period" and postpone all worry outside it.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
10. Run toward the feeling
    Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical

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