Coaching practices for How to Deal with a Colleague Who's Taking All the Nice Important Tasks

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• Someone hits a snag, brings it to me, I say "leave it with me," and somehow the task I delegated is back on my desk
• Every time an urgent little task lands on my team there’s this awkward pause where nobody’s sure whose job it is, so it either drops or whoever’s least busy gets stuck with it again
• I hand work off and somehow it keeps boomeranging back onto my plate
• Every time I try to hand something off it boomerangs back to me with questions, or it comes back done wrong, so I’ve quietly decided it’s faster to just do it myself
• My day fills up with other people’s pressing little asks that don’t actually need me specifically

Practices that may help

1. Resist upward (reverse) delegation
   Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
2. Establish an explicit delegation protocol for Q3 tasks
   Define in advance who receives which types of urgent-but-not-important tasks — before they arrive.
   The Eisenhower Matrix for Teams
3. Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
   When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
4. Structured delegation for Q3 tasks
   Hand off urgent-but-not-important tasks with a clear brief, defined success criteria, and a check-in cadence.
   The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation
5. Quadrant 3: delegate it
   Urgent but not important tasks — interruptions and others’ priorities — get handed off.
   The Eisenhower Matrix, Made Practical
6. Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
   Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
7. Protect important-not-urgent work as a team commitment
   Schedule Q2 work on a shared calendar so urgent tasks can’t claim it by default.
   The Eisenhower Matrix for Teams
8. Delegate or minimize Quadrant III systematically
   Urgent but not important tasks are the most dangerous time drain — build a system for handling them without your attention.
   Big Rocks First
9. Match the task to the person
   Delegate based on the fit between the task’s demands and the person’s skill, growth needs, and capacity.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
10. Transfer authority with the responsibility
    Give people the decision rights and resources the task actually requires.
    Effective Delegation, Made Practical

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