Coaching practices for How to Deal with Rejection Job Interview

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  • The conversation goes great and then it just...
  • My whole job search is just refreshing job boards and firing off applications into the void, competing with hundreds of strangers for whatever happens to be posted
  • I want to message someone in a field I’m curious about, but I freeze on what to even say
  • I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
  • When I try to turn someone down I bury it under so many apologies and explanations that I leave the door wide open, and they come right back with "but what if…"

Practices that may help

  1. Close every informational interview with one forward step
    End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  2. Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
    Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  3. Request the conversation the right way
    A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  4. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
    Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  5. Say no clearly and without over-explaining
    Decline requests with a brief, honest reason — not a cascade of apologies and caveats.
    Essentialism: The Art of Eliminating the Non-Essential
  6. Repair a poor response
    When you respond badly to good news, circle back and give the engaged response you missed.
    Active-Constructive Responding, Made Practical
  7. Identify your real BATNA before negotiations begin
    Clarify exactly what you will do if no deal is reached — and whether that alternative is as good as you assume.
    BATNA: Your Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement
  8. Manage your own flinch response — don’t give away your real floor
    Control your visible reaction to counteroffers so you don’t inadvertently signal where your actual limit is.
    The Flinch and Reactive Devaluation, Made Practical
  9. Use the flinch as a first response to an opening offer
    A visible, immediate negative reaction to an offer shifts the reference point before a single argument is made.
    The Flinch and Reactive Devaluation, Made Practical
  10. Find alternatives to expressive suppression in high-stakes moments
    When you must manage what you show, use reappraisal or slow your breath rather than white-knuckling the expression down.
    Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical

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