Coaching practices for How to Evaluate Decisions

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  • I beat myself up over a call that went badly even though it was reasonable with what I knew, and I pat myself on the back for a reckless one that happened to work
  • I started writing my decisions down but I never actually go back to close the loop
  • I beat myself up over a call that went badly even though it was the right move with what I knew, and I let myself off the hook for reckless ones that happened to work out
  • I agonize for days over tiny choices I could undo in a second, then rush the big ones I can’t take back
  • Under all this pressure to please people and react, I’m about to make a call that I already sense doesn’t square with who I actually want to be

Practices that may help

  1. Score decision quality separately from outcome quality
    Judge the process you used — not whether it worked — when you review a past decision.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  2. Run a weekly decision review session
    Set aside 20 minutes each week to score past decisions and extract one lesson.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  3. Separate the quality of the decision from the outcome
    A good decision can produce a bad outcome, and a bad decision can produce a good outcome — do not confuse them.
    Thinking in Bets
  4. Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
    A decision journal is a written record of significant decisions — what you decided, why, what you expected to happen, and what actually happened. It counteracts hindsight bias and outcome bias by preserving your actual reasoning before the outcome arrives, and it creates the only feedback loop that produces real calibration: comparing your predictions to results across many decisions over time.
  5. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
    Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  6. Use the 10-year view to check values alignment
    Ask: is the 10-year version of this choice consistent with what I actually care about?
    The 10-10-10 Rule
  7. Classify every decision as one-way or two-way before starting
    Before applying any decision process, ask: can I reverse this if I am wrong?
    The Two-Way Door
  8. Evaluate solutions against costs, benefits, and fit
    Rate each solution on likelihood of success, personal costs, and fit with your values.
    Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical
  9. Judge decisions by the process, not the result
    A good decision that produces a bad outcome is still a good decision.
    Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty
  10. Keep a decision journal to score your EV estimates
    Log your probability estimates and payoff predictions, then compare them to what happened.
    Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty

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