Coaching practices for How to Find Your Blind Spots

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• Whenever I ask people how I’m doing I just get vague, polite reassurance
• People who know me keep pointing at some pattern in me that I genuinely can’t see in myself
• I can spot everyone else’s blind spots instantly
• I know in the abstract that I have blind spots, but I couldn’t name a single one
• Our team has patterns that everyone outside us seems to see clearly while none of us inside it can

Practices that may help

1. Actively seek feedback on your blind spots
   Ask specifically for what others see that you might not — with enough specificity to get honest answers.
   The Johari Window
2. The Enneagram blind-spot inquiry
   Use your type’s characteristic blind spot as a daily question: "How might I be doing this without knowing it?"
   The Enneagram
3. Question your own objectivity explicitly
   Ask yourself what forces might be shaping your perception before assuming you see things clearly.
   Naive Realism: Why Everyone Thinks They See Things as They Are
4. Map your Johari Window with a trusted person
   Identify what is open, hidden, and blind in a specific relationship or role.
   The Johari Window
5. Use the Johari Window in team settings
   Apply the window at the team level to improve shared understanding and reduce inter-member blind spots.
   The Johari Window
6. Look for what your map omits
   Every model leaves something out — deliberately search for your blind spots.
   The Map Is Not the Territory
7. Watch for the signatures of overconfidence
   Treat "this is obvious" and "I’ve got this" as warning signs, not green lights.
   Metacognition: Knowing What You Actually Know
8. Fresh-eyes inquiry: "What if I knew nothing about this?"
   Before engaging a familiar situation, ask what you would notice if you were seeing it for the first time.
   Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical
9. Spot and name character strengths in others
   Notice and explicitly name the character strengths you observe in people around you.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
10. Recall how little you notice others
    Inventory how often you notice strangers’ flaws — then apply that rate to yourself.
    The Spotlight Effect: Why You Think Everyone Is Watching

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