Coaching practices for How to Frame a Message

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  • I’m trying to get people to actually go check on something
  • My pitch keeps falling flat with certain people, and I’m starting to think it’s because I’m always selling the exciting upside to someone who only really cares about not losing what they already have.
  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • I have to open a hard conversation or a proposal and I never know how to set it up
  • No matter how carefully I word it, my feedback seems to land as me sitting in judgment over them from above

Practices that may help

  1. Apply loss frames to detection and risk-awareness messages
    Screening and early-warning messages consistently perform better when framed as losses rather than gains.
    The Loss Frame: How Framing Shapes Decisions
  2. The Loss Frame: How Framing Shapes Decisions
    Yes, and substantially. Prospect theory (Kahneman & Tversky) established that people feel losses about twice as intensely as equivalent gains, so a message framed around what you stand to lose tends to be more motivating than one framed around what you stand to gain — especially for risk-averse decisions. The effect is real and well-replicated, though its size depends on the stakes, the audience, and the domain.
  3. Frame the goal as prevention or promotion
    Match the message to whether the person is chasing gains or guarding against losses.
    The Framing Effect
  4. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  5. The Framing Effect
    The framing effect is the finding that how a choice is presented — as a gain or a loss, a glass half full or half empty — changes which option people pick, even when the underlying facts are identical. It’s a well-replicated decision-making effect rooted in loss aversion, and it’s why reframing an offer can change the answer without changing the substance.
  6. Frame problems with SCQA (Situation–Complication–Question–Answer)
    Use the SCQA framework to establish context cleanly before stating your recommendation.
    The Minto Pyramid Principle
  7. Establish shared purpose before delivering critique
    Frame critique as help toward a shared goal, not an evaluation from above.
    The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead
  8. Match your message frame to the audience’s motivation type
    Promotion-focused audiences respond to gains; prevention-focused ones respond to avoiding losses.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  9. Place your message in a context that evokes the right associations
    Context — physical, digital, or conversational — frames how a message is received before the first word.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  10. Lead with the answer, not the build-up
    State your conclusion or recommendation first, then provide the supporting evidence.
    The Minto Pyramid Principle

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