Coaching practices for How to Get Over Anxiety About Death

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• I don’t want to keep distracting myself from the fact that I’ll die, but I don’t want to spiral about it either
• The fear of dying creeps up on me at night and I either spiral or shove it down, never actually looking at it
• Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
• Lately I keep catching myself aware that my time is running out, and instead of letting it scare me I want to actually sit with it for a few minutes and let it show me what I’d most regret never having done.
• I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over

Practices that may help

1. Move from terror management to mortality acceptance
   Develop a genuinely held relationship with your finitude rather than suppressing or managing it.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
2. Examining the fear of death philosophically
   Engage honestly with the Epicurean argument that death is not an evil — not to suppress fear but to examine its foundation.
   Epicurean Philosophy: Practical Happiness
3. Engage with the present moment
   Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
4. Deliberate mortality reflection
   Briefly contemplate your finite lifespan to surface what actually matters to you.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
5. Fade reassurance-seeking
   Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
6. Practice bounded mortality contemplation
   Set a timer and contemplate mortality for five minutes — then close it deliberately.
   Memento Mori: Using Mortality Awareness to Focus What Matters
7. Invest in close relationships as a mortality buffer
   Deep relational bonds provide genuine, non-defensive protection against existential anxiety.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
8. Run toward the feeling
   Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
9. Drop the safety behaviors
   Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
10. Add interoceptive rungs for bodily fear
    If you fear the physical sensations of anxiety itself, include exposures that deliberately induce them.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical

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