Coaching practices for How to Handle Extreme Stress at Work

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  • I’ve gotten so good at "embracing the stress" that I keep telling myself I’m fine while quietly running on empty
  • I’m so flooded right now I can’t think
  • I’m so wound up I can’t sit still
  • Deep in a work session my jaw clenches and my shoulders creep up and I read it as a signal to bear down harder
  • Right before the thing that matters

Practices that may help

  1. Pair the enhancing mindset with genuine stress management
    Believing stress can be useful does not mean tolerating excess — recognize when reduction is the right move.
    The Stress-Is-Enhancing Mindset
  2. TIPP: Rapid Physiological De-escalation for Intense Distress
    Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation to bring crisis-level emotion down quickly.
    The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
  3. Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement
    Do 20 jumping jacks, sprint for a minute, or any intense exercise to burn through the stress-response chemicals.
    TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity
  4. Use stress signals as cycle-boundary alerts
    When physical stress signals arrive in a focus session, treat them as the body marking a cycle boundary — not a cue to push harder.
    Ultradian Rhythms: Working with Your Brain’s Focus Cycles
  5. Practice the "see it, own it, use it" reappraisal
    Crum’s framework: notice the stress (see it), acknowledge why it matters (own it), and channel it (use it).
    The Stress-Is-Enhancing Mindset
  6. Make extra deposits during difficult life periods
    External stress drains PSO — consciously increase positive interactions when life is hard.
    Positive Sentiment Override: How to Build the Lens That Protects Relationships
  7. Inventory your coping resources (secondary appraisal)
    After identifying the threat, systematically assess what you actually have to work with — your options are likely more than the stressed mind sees.
    Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
  8. TIPP — change your body chemistry fast
    Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Progressive muscle relaxation to drop overwhelm from the body up.
    Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
  9. Map your stress response (conceptualization phase)
    Before you train coping, understand the full sequence: trigger → appraisal → body → behavior → consequence.
    Stress Inoculation Training
  10. Graduated anger inoculation (stress inoculation exposure)
    Practice coping with anger in imagination — from mild triggers to intense ones — before you face them live.
    Novaco Anger Management, Made Practical

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