Coaching practices for How to Make Better Long Term Decisions

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• I only ever stick with things that show me a quick win, and I lose heart fast when there’s no feedback
• I’m facing a big decision and I keep weighing only how it plays out over the next year or two
• Under all this pressure to please people and react, I’m about to make a call that I already sense doesn’t square with who I actually want to be
• I’m staring at a choice and the only thing I can feel is how it lands right now
• I keep grabbing the thing that feels good today and quietly paying for it a year later

Practices that may help

1. Cultivate an "acorn brain": plant what you will not harvest
   Deliberately invest time and energy in efforts that will only pay off decades from now.
   The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life
2. The seventh-generation test for decisions
   Before a major choice, ask how it will affect people seven generations from now.
   The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life
3. Use the 10-year view to check values alignment
   Ask: is the 10-year version of this choice consistent with what I actually care about?
   The 10-10-10 Rule
4. Apply all three horizons explicitly
   Before deciding, write a sentence answering each: 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years.
   The 10-10-10 Rule
5. Check the consequence across time horizons
   A choice can be good at one day, bad at one year — name the result at each horizon.
   Second-Order Thinking: And Then What?
6. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
   Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
   Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
7. Use the 10-year horizon as a regret test
   Ask: in 10 years, will I regret not doing this more than doing it?
   The 10-10-10 Rule
8. Run a weekly decision review session
   Set aside 20 minutes each week to score past decisions and extract one lesson.
   Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
9. Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
   A decision journal is a written record of significant decisions — what you decided, why, what you expected to happen, and what actually happened. It counteracts hindsight bias and outcome bias by preserving your actual reasoning before the outcome arrives, and it creates the only feedback loop that produces real calibration: comparing your predictions to results across many decisions over time.
10. Slow down on one-way doors
    For irreversible decisions, invest in deliberation proportional to the downside — not to your confidence.
    The Two-Way Door

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